Parents, Put Fun First
Checklist for parents in youth sports -- on and off the mat:
1. I maintain a "Fun is No. 1" attitude.
2. I treat officials, coaches, my kids, their schoolmates and their opponents with respect and avoid ridicule or sarcasm.
3. I praise my kids, their schoolmates and opponents just for participating, regardless of their athletic skills.
4. I remember to look for positives with my kids, their schoolmates and their opponents.
5. I remain calm when my kids or their schoolmates make a mistake and help them learn from their mistakes.
6. I remind my kids and their schoolmates not to get down on themselves when things don't go well.
7. I try not to take myself too seriously when it comes to my involvement in youth sports, reminding myself that there is life beyond youth sports.
8. I remind myself and my kids to laugh and keep a sense of humor.
9. I emphasize teamwork in school sports with my kids, teaching them to think "we" instead of "me".
10. I teach my kids by giving them a good example of good sportsmanship: winning without gloating and losing without complaining.
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